We were sitting there, talking, well gossiping really, as we have done for 11 years (side note I am so proud of this powerful supportive female friendship) now and for the first time ever I slipped into a completely homonormative – that’s right you read that correctly – homonormative way of thinking with a straight…

closing the gap

That is a privilege. Whether you want to acknowledge it or not it is right there – floating in the space between us –